This month's Caregiver Forms free form is for anyone who wants to keep track of expenses. Whether it is to have good records for tax time, or just an easy way for caregivers to keep track of a client or loved ones money, this form makes it simple to organize and record expenses. It takes all the information you need to review and puts it on one page. Check off the purchased item under the Taxes column, if this is a deduction you can take on your income taxes. Download, print and get started now!
Caregiver Expenses Form
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How to Care for a Parent With a Disability
from wikiHow - The How to Manual That You Can Edit
As the elderly and disabled population grows, many children take on the responsibility of ensuring their parents have adequate care as they age. According to the Family Caregiver Alliance, the number of unpaid family caregivers has risen 85 percent since the year 2000. This can be a daunting task for children, because it requires money, organization, technology and medical care. While each disability requires different care, there are some ways you can prepare to care for your parents ahead of time. Learn some guidelines on how to care for a parent with a disability.
Steps
Disability Care Preparations- Speak with your parents before disabilities begin. Let them know that you are willing to take over care when their disability or future disabilities make it impossible for them to live completely independently. Set up a plan of care with them, if possible.
- Recognize when a disabled parent is in need of help. Some disabilities are gradual, especially those associated with aging. The following are some ways that disabilities can appear:
- Watch for signs that parents can no longer handle their daily routines. Failure to shower, wash clothing, brush teeth or eat well is usually a sign of mental or physical problems. Also, look for signs that they are unable to keep up with housework may show that they need assistance in the home.
- Evaluate how your parents are driving. Look for signs of confusion, failure to see or motor vehicle accidents. Failing sight, dementia and loss of muscle or nerve control will dictate when it is time for them to stop driving.
- Look for signs that your parents risk injury at home. Stairs, icy conditions, slippery showers and other hazards can give you warning that a parent is losing some mobility. A change in living conditions, aides or living situation may be necessary.
- Keep track of memory loss. Disabilities can be mental as well as physical. If your parent forgets appointments, has trouble speaking or cannot follow directions, then assistance in a daily routine may be necessary.
- Meet with your parent and a lawyer to update or start a will, durable power of attorney and advanced directives. A durable power of attorney gives you the ability to make long term care decisions for your parent, should they be unable to do so. Advanced directives are instructions given by the parent to family members and medical staff, which give instructions on what medical treatment they would like to receive during hospitalization and end-of-life care.
- Speak with your disabled parent about the money needed to handle their disability. Experts estimate that it can take $40,000 to $80,000 per year to care for someone who is ill or disabled. Ask your parent how they desire for the money to be used, and see what financial decisions you should make for your parent in the short term.
- Gather financial information from your parents as they grow older. Ask questions about what benefits they receive from the government, and which benefits they take care of themselves. Being familiar with their assistance can save you from losing your financial safety because of family member's disability.
- Help your parent to apply for social security disability or another government funded disability program, especially if they are too young to receive a pension. Gather all the necessary financial, medical and personal details and submit it to the government. Applying for disability benefits can take months or years, so begin when you know your parent's disability is permanent.
- Hire a lawyer to help your parent with an appeal, if they were turned down for disability coverage and you believe the case is valid. The lawyer can help follow the protocol of the appeals process and improve your chances of success.
- Contact local aging services. Many cities and counties provide meals, transportation and community activities to people who are older and have disabilities. These services can ease the burden of some caring from your shoulders.
- Learn about your parent's Medicare or Medicaid benefits. Health insurance benefits are extremely important in getting your parent high-quality medical care. Keep a list of all providers that are covered under their plan.
- Learn about the services offered by the Department of Veteran Affairs. If your parent served in the military, then they may be due for a pension or medical coverage.
- Read about agencies that can help your parent at www.Govbenefits.gov. This will acquaint you with state or federal programs that your parent may not have applied for.
- Overhaul your parent's house to ensure it is safe and accessible. Follow your parent around during their daily routine to see what problems come up. You may also choose to hire an occupational therapist to visit the house and suggest possible aides for installation.
- Install ramps for your parent outside the home, if he or she is confined to a wheel chair. Make sure the rooms and hallways are wide enough to move around in while in a wheel chair.
- Create a safer bath room. Install a walk-in shower if your parent has mobility issues. Place a seat inside the shower to remove the risk of falling. Install grab bars along the walls and shower to reduce the risk of falling. You can install an elevated toilet seat with bars to make using the toilet easier.
- Install safety devices in the home. Buy carbon monoxide and smoke detectors, if they are not installed already. A disabled parent may not be able to call in case of emergency, so these devices can alert neighbors or caregivers.
- Invest in technology that will keep you close in contact. Buy your parent a cell phone that is easy to use and buy a membership in a medical alert company. Some companies, such as QuietCare, can call you if something is out of the ordinary by employing motion sensors.
- Consider hiring a health care professional. If you are unable to administer the necessary medication and health care, then you can seek the help of a full-time nurse, part-time nurse, caregiver, physical therapist or occupational therapist. Begin with part-time care and increase in the future if necessary.
- Professional carers can be expensive. However, it may be your parent's preference if they want to live as long as possible at home, instead of in a facility.
- Go to medical appointments with your parent. If you are devoting time to caring for your parents, then you should make sure you are getting the most value out of their medical care. Parents with memory loss or mental disabilities may not remember or ask the right questions, so go to the appointments and take notes.
- Communicate with your parent's pharmacy. Make sure all the prescriptions are filled at 1 place. Losing track of medication can result in an unforeseen drug interaction, causing further illness.
- Discuss a nursing home facility with your parent. If your parent's disabilities are large or their home is unsafe, then relocation may be the best option. Discuss their concerns and look for a place that you can visit often.
- Arrange activities for your parent. Avoid letting your parents be home bound as long as possible. Regular social activity can improve their mood, avoiding depression.
- Plan regular meals with friends and family. Your disabled parent may no longer be able to cook, so a homemade or restaurant meal may improve their quality of life. If your parents are seniors, you can also research community meals at the local Elk's Club, Senior Citizens Center or other clubs.
- Look at assisted care facilities that act as communities. If your parent can still live somewhat independently, they may be able to take up residence in a community environment. Assisted living facilities provide a space where people of similar age and health can eat, talk and do activities on a daily basis.
Tips
- For more tips, buy a book like "Caring for Your Parents: The Complete AARP Guide." Since not all disabilities are the same, an instructional book can help you anticipate the care your parents will need and give you advice as your parent's situation changes.
- Ensure that you get quality time to yourself when caring for a disabled parent. Being a carer can be emotionally and physically draining. To avoid feeling overwhelmed, treat yourself to a favorite activity every day and a larger session every week.
Things You'll Need
- Will
- Durable Power of Attorney
- Advanced directives
- Social security disability information
- Pharmacy
- Medicare/Medicaid
- Aging services
- Senior Citizens Center
- Assistive devices
- Professional carers
- Cell phone
- Medical alert bracelet
- Nursing home facilities
Sources and Citations
- http://www.aasa.dshs.wa.gov/caregiving/agingparent.htm
- http://health.usnews.com/health-news/articles/2007/11/02/15-things-you-can-do-to-keep-mom-and-dad-at-home
- http://www.agingcare.com/Articles/10-Government-Programs-Caregivers-Can-Access-for-Their-Elderly-Parents-120513.htm
- http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/aging-parents/HA00082
Winter Safety for Seniors
As we get older, falling can be pretty scary and it can be downright dangerous for our seniors. Below are a couple of great articles with some helpful tips on keeping our elderly loved ones safe. From keeping the car full of gas and preparing for a blackout, to installing carbon monoxide detectors and eating healthy, there are many things we can do as caregivers to keep our older folks safe and healthy this winter.
The safety and security team at SecuritySystemReviews.com created a list of safety tips specifically for elderly individuals during the winter months. Click here for the tip sheet. Also, check out the article 7 Winter Safety Tips for Seniors and Seniors: Brush up on winter safety
Vital Winter Safety Tips for the Elderly - Tip Sheet
The safety and security team at SecuritySystemReviews.com created a list of safety tips specifically for elderly individuals during the winter months. Click here for the tip sheet. Also, check out the article 7 Winter Safety Tips for Seniors and Seniors: Brush up on winter safety
Vital Winter Safety Tips for the Elderly - Tip Sheet
Free Symptom Checker
Is the client or loved one you are caregiving for not feeling well? Do you suddenly have a strange pain? WebMD has an excellent site to help caregivers check out possible causes for medical symptoms. Just fill out the basic information form (it asks for a zip code and email, but you don't have to enter it.) and submit. Click on the area of the body and answer a few questions and it will give you list of common conditions that could be the problem. Whether its the difficulty in getting to the doctor or the rising healthcare costs its not always possible to run to the doctor with every ache or pain. This site may help you decide whether its worth the trip.
WebMD Symptom Checker
WebMD Symptom Checker
Need Information? AARP Probably Has It
If you haven't visited AARP's Caregiving Resource Center page, you need to check it out. There is a lot of great information for caregivers, with support, tools and resources, expert advice, caregiver news and more. Below are a few articles from the site I found interesting.
Can I Get Paid as a Caregiver?
Hiring Someone to Help With Home Care (If you do hire someone, don't forget to use our Negotiations Checklist!)
The Honest Truth: Caregiving Sucks - A funny informative blog post from one of their contributors.
Can I Get Paid as a Caregiver?
Hiring Someone to Help With Home Care (If you do hire someone, don't forget to use our Negotiations Checklist!)
The Honest Truth: Caregiving Sucks - A funny informative blog post from one of their contributors.
If you have any interesting caregiver links or resources, please share them in the comments section below. Thanks and have a great day!
Get Customer Reviews of Medications and Other Drug Treatments
I love being able to read customer reviews before I buy anything. Though you can't always trust specific reviews, you can get an overall idea of the quality and what people think of the product. The website Ask A Patient is a website with thousands of reviews on more than 4,000 different prescription drugs, vaccines, gene therapy products and many over-the-counter drugs. Its just regular people sharing their drug treatment experiences, side effects and success stories.
This is great site to help caregivers and families get information about medications loved ones are taking, but always keep in mind these are regular people and not medical professionals, so consult your doctor before changing or stopping any medication.
Good Caregivers Must Learn To Say NO!
Saying no can sometimes be very hard for caregivers. As a rule, caregivers are nurturers who put others before themselves, so when its time to say no, caregivers often feel guilty or feel like they are being selfish. So how do you set limits for yourself and others?
According to When and How To Say "No" to Caregiving, setting emotional limits involves a process of change with five key steps.
How to Say ‘No’ to Caregiving
According to When and How To Say "No" to Caregiving, setting emotional limits involves a process of change with five key steps.
- The caregiver must admit that the situation needs to change in order to sustain a meaningful relationship. Without change, the caregiver risks poor health, depression or premature death.
- The caregiver must reconsider personal beliefs regarding what it means to be a good caregiver. Since the caregiver generally has moral expectations of his or her own behavior, redefining what “should” be done to what is reasonable and possible to do can be a liberating moment.
- The caregiver needs to identify key people (friends, family or professionals) who can support and guide the caregiver through this change process.
- The caregiver needs to develop communication tools to express the need for boundaries.
- The caregiver must be able to sustain this new approach while allowing the elder time, to react and express his or her feelings about the changes. Readjusting the balance in any relationship takes time, especially when both members have competing needs.
If you are a caregiver who has taken on more than you can handle, learn to say no NOW. Letting things get too far out of control can cause great harm to you and everything you are trying to do. Saying no to loved ones can be hard, but not as hard as having a breakdown or losing relationships that are important to you. The first priority for any caregiver is to take care of yourself first! Don't let yourself down. Get help if you need it. Get involved in local caregiver support groups, talk to supportive friends and family and read good caregiver resource articles like the ones below for tips on how to say no and not feel guilty.
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How to Say ‘No’ to Caregiving
Dealing with Agitation and Aggression
We know some of the common signs of Alzheimer's patients are confusion, memory loss, and odd behavior, but what do you do when your loved one becomes aggressive? How does a caregiver handle situations that may become dangerous?
The National Institute on Aging (NIA), has issued a tip sheet for Alzheimer’s caregivers called Coping with Agitation and Aggression.
“Most of the time, agitation and aggression happen for a reason,” the NIA explains. “When they happen, try to find the cause. If you deal with the causes, the behavior may stop,” the NIA tip sheet counsels.
Some examples of common causes for aggressive behavior or agitation, include:
Here are the NIA’s tips for the caregiver on how to deal with agitation and aggressive behavior:
Too often caregivers can neglect their own safety because they are overwhelmed by the needs of the patient or loved one. Always remember to keep yourself and other safe first, THEN deal with the situation.
Click on the links below for the tip sheet and other articles on this subject.
The National Institute on Aging (NIA), has issued a tip sheet for Alzheimer’s caregivers called Coping with Agitation and Aggression.
“Most of the time, agitation and aggression happen for a reason,” the NIA explains. “When they happen, try to find the cause. If you deal with the causes, the behavior may stop,” the NIA tip sheet counsels.
Some examples of common causes for aggressive behavior or agitation, include:
- Pain, depression, or stress
- Too little rest or sleep
- Constipation
- Soiled underwear or diaper
- Sudden change in a well-known place, routine, or person
- A feeling of loss—for example, the person may miss the freedom to drive
- Too much noise or confusion or too many people in the room
- Being pushed by others to do something—for example, to bathe or to remember events or people—when Alzheimer’s has made the activity very hard or impossible
- Feeling lonely and not having enough contact with other people
- Interaction of medicine
Here are the NIA’s tips for the caregiver on how to deal with agitation and aggressive behavior:
- Reassure the person. Speak calmly. Listen to his or her concerns and frustrations. Try to show that you understand if the person is angry or fearful.
- Allow the person to keep as much control in his or her life as possible.
- Coping with changes is hard for someone with Alzheimer’s. Try to keep a routine, such as bathing, dressing, and eating at the same time each day.
- Build quiet times into the day, along with activities.
- Keep well-loved objects and photographs around the house to help the person feel more secure.
- Try gentle touching, soothing music, reading, or walks.
- Reduce noise, clutter, or the number of people in the room.
- Try to distract the person with a favorite snack, object, or activity.
- Limit the amount of caffeine, sugar, and “junk food” the person drinks and eats.
- Slow down and try to relax if you think your own worries may be affecting the person with Alzheimer’s.
- Try to find a way to take a break from caregiving.
Too often caregivers can neglect their own safety because they are overwhelmed by the needs of the patient or loved one. Always remember to keep yourself and other safe first, THEN deal with the situation.
Click on the links below for the tip sheet and other articles on this subject.
Tax Tips for Caregivers
It's tax time again and I decided to look around to see if I could find some articles to help answer some common caregiver questions about taxes. Below is a list of links I found with some great information.
Answers to Tax Questions Caregivers Ask Most
IRS - Tax Information for Caregivers - Straight from the IRS. Questions like "My parent is suffering from dementia. As a result, I must cash his/her monthly social security check and use the proceeds for his/her care. What are the resulting tax consequences?" and "My parent signed his/her home over to me. Does this transaction have to be reported to the IRS?"
IRS - Family Caregivers and Self-Employment Tax - Answers to questions about caregiving and filing self-employment taxes.
2012 Tax Tips for Family Caregivers - Up to date tax information for caregivers.
The 10 Most Overlooked Tax Deductions - From mileage to artificial limbs, deductions your probably didn't know you could claim.
The 10 Most Overlooked Tax Deductions - From mileage to artificial limbs, deductions your probably didn't know you could claim.
Answers to Tax Questions Caregivers Ask Most
IRS - Tax Information for Caregivers - Straight from the IRS. Questions like "My parent is suffering from dementia. As a result, I must cash his/her monthly social security check and use the proceeds for his/her care. What are the resulting tax consequences?" and "My parent signed his/her home over to me. Does this transaction have to be reported to the IRS?"
Free Tax Preparation For Seniors - Links to a few nationwide agencies that offer free tax preparation for seniors.
Bonus Tip: Use our Expenses Form to keep track of expenses and make filing next year's taxes easier!
Happy Flu Year!
When you are a caregiver, a simple thing like the flu can be pretty dangerous to a sick or weak loved one. Based on Google's Flu Trends page, the flu is at an "intense" level this year. Check out this Flu Facts page for anything you ever wanted to know about the flu, including how to avoid it and how to keep loved ones from getting it. Also, find out where to get a vaccination with the HealthMap Vaccine Finder.
http://www.google.org/flutrends
http://www.flufacts.com
http://flushot.healthmap.org
http://www.google.org/flutrends
http://www.flufacts.com
http://flushot.healthmap.org
Caregiver Negotiations and Checklist
This is a repost from last year. I am posting it again because the Negotiation Checklist is this month's free form. Click here to get yours and have a wonderful day!
Caregiver Negotiations 101 - How to Get the Job You Want or the Care You Need
Having worked as a caregiver for more than 30 years in private care, adult care homes, and owning my own residential care facility, I have participated in the hiring process many times. I have been on both ends of the hiring spectrum. As an owner I hired employees and managed their work. As a worker in various facilities, I have done hands on care under the supervision of my employers. I have been self-employed and I have been employed by others. In every case, the process of hiring or being hired was vital to my satisfaction in the partnership established. This was due in large part to agreements I negotiated ahead of time.
The tempting thing to do when hiring or being hired is to go with the emotions of how we feel about the person we are interviewing or being interviewed by. Sometimes just having a job or hiring a worker seems like the most important goal. A quick decision without much forethought or preparation will often quickly lead to misunderstanding and dissatisfaction. This in turn leads to a continuous turnover of workers or another job search. The time taken in initiating and training is wasted and must be done again and again with new workers or jobs. The frustration and stress level increase with each failure to get it right.
Preparation ahead of time is invaluable when entering into a contract for caregiving. Whether the position is for a relief caregiver, an hourly worker, a shift worker, or a full-time live-in companion/ caregiver there are many things to consider before entering into an agreement. Negotiation ensures both parties are satisfied when the process is finished. Working out all the details and answering all the pertinent questions ahead of time, guarantees a smoother working relationship with all parties involved.
Just the word “negotiation” can be intimidating for people who aren’t sure how to do it. I have learned over time that the whole process can be simplified by taking the time to prepare for and anticipate as many areas as possible that need discussion and negotiation ahead of time. An employer often wants the most work possible from an employee, for the least amount of output of resources and wages. On the other hand, a person applying for work wants the most pay for a manageable amount of work done. Often the gulf between expectations is very wide apart. Many times only a fraction of the important issues are discussed. The mindset is usually that when the actual working relationship begins, these issues will be ironed out on the job. From experience I have found this to be a huge mistake. It is much easier to establish ahead of time what you are able to do or allow, and what you absolutely will not give in on. It’s a type of boundary and limitation setting that should take place in all relationships, personal and in employment situations. Many problems can be avoided on the job when they have been discussed beforehand, in detail, with agreements made and understanding clarified.
A list of topics, issues, question, and expectations to check off during the interview will ensure every area is covered. This will make you feel much more efficient and professional. The process can actually be very satisfying when you know your future is being decided as you proceed.
You often hear advice given on how to dress and present yourself for an interview. Those things are very important, but the art of negotiation will have a longer lasting impact on your ability to work in a friendly environment, with a staff that is considerate of each other and who all have consistent expectations. Of course, one thing to remember is, the actual negotiations can only begin when you are confident you will be hired.
The Negotiation Checklist
This form is invaluable when entering into a contract for caregiving. Whether the position is for a relief caregiver, an hourly worker, a shift worker, or a full-time live-in companion/caregiver there are many things to consider before entering into an agreement. Negotiation ensures both parties are satisfied when the process is finished. Working out all the details and answering all the pertinent questions ahead of time, guarantees a smoother working relationship with all parties involved. This checklist includes some of the most important things to consider and discuss during the initial interview. It’s easy to use; just put a check mark in the box in front of the topic you want to address. Make notes of details to consider later and any agreements made. At the end of the form is an area to put points of interest and other questions to consider. There are three pages in these negotiation worksheets. This form is a real confidence builder! Get yours here.
Caregiver Negotiations 101 - How to Get the Job You Want or the Care You Need
Having worked as a caregiver for more than 30 years in private care, adult care homes, and owning my own residential care facility, I have participated in the hiring process many times. I have been on both ends of the hiring spectrum. As an owner I hired employees and managed their work. As a worker in various facilities, I have done hands on care under the supervision of my employers. I have been self-employed and I have been employed by others. In every case, the process of hiring or being hired was vital to my satisfaction in the partnership established. This was due in large part to agreements I negotiated ahead of time.
The tempting thing to do when hiring or being hired is to go with the emotions of how we feel about the person we are interviewing or being interviewed by. Sometimes just having a job or hiring a worker seems like the most important goal. A quick decision without much forethought or preparation will often quickly lead to misunderstanding and dissatisfaction. This in turn leads to a continuous turnover of workers or another job search. The time taken in initiating and training is wasted and must be done again and again with new workers or jobs. The frustration and stress level increase with each failure to get it right.
Preparation ahead of time is invaluable when entering into a contract for caregiving. Whether the position is for a relief caregiver, an hourly worker, a shift worker, or a full-time live-in companion/ caregiver there are many things to consider before entering into an agreement. Negotiation ensures both parties are satisfied when the process is finished. Working out all the details and answering all the pertinent questions ahead of time, guarantees a smoother working relationship with all parties involved.
Just the word “negotiation” can be intimidating for people who aren’t sure how to do it. I have learned over time that the whole process can be simplified by taking the time to prepare for and anticipate as many areas as possible that need discussion and negotiation ahead of time. An employer often wants the most work possible from an employee, for the least amount of output of resources and wages. On the other hand, a person applying for work wants the most pay for a manageable amount of work done. Often the gulf between expectations is very wide apart. Many times only a fraction of the important issues are discussed. The mindset is usually that when the actual working relationship begins, these issues will be ironed out on the job. From experience I have found this to be a huge mistake. It is much easier to establish ahead of time what you are able to do or allow, and what you absolutely will not give in on. It’s a type of boundary and limitation setting that should take place in all relationships, personal and in employment situations. Many problems can be avoided on the job when they have been discussed beforehand, in detail, with agreements made and understanding clarified.
A list of topics, issues, question, and expectations to check off during the interview will ensure every area is covered. This will make you feel much more efficient and professional. The process can actually be very satisfying when you know your future is being decided as you proceed.
You often hear advice given on how to dress and present yourself for an interview. Those things are very important, but the art of negotiation will have a longer lasting impact on your ability to work in a friendly environment, with a staff that is considerate of each other and who all have consistent expectations. Of course, one thing to remember is, the actual negotiations can only begin when you are confident you will be hired.
The Negotiation Checklist
This form is invaluable when entering into a contract for caregiving. Whether the position is for a relief caregiver, an hourly worker, a shift worker, or a full-time live-in companion/caregiver there are many things to consider before entering into an agreement. Negotiation ensures both parties are satisfied when the process is finished. Working out all the details and answering all the pertinent questions ahead of time, guarantees a smoother working relationship with all parties involved. This checklist includes some of the most important things to consider and discuss during the initial interview. It’s easy to use; just put a check mark in the box in front of the topic you want to address. Make notes of details to consider later and any agreements made. At the end of the form is an area to put points of interest and other questions to consider. There are three pages in these negotiation worksheets. This form is a real confidence builder! Get yours here.
Free Blank Monthly Calendars
What caregiver doesn't need a good, basic, blank calendar? These calendars are simple and will take only a few minutes to fill out each month. Keeping all appointments and other important dates on the calendar will ensure they are not lost and are easily accessible. We have both landscape and portrait views, so you can put them up on the wall, put them in a notebook or use them wherever you need them.
Click here to view and print the landscape calendar
Click here to view and print the portrait calendar
Click here to view and print the landscape calendar
Click here to view and print the portrait calendar
Pets as Caregivers
I read a couple of great articles today: Pets as Caregiving Instructors - A Look at the Healing Power of Pets and Animals as Caregivers and it made me think of my grandmother's little dog, Casper.
I never really appreciated little dogs until I became a caregiver for my grandmother. We used to joke that Casper, her dog, was only good for being a lap warmer. But he was much more than that to my granny. He WAS the best lap warmer ever, but he was also her best friend. He knew how to comfort her when no one else could and even when her health really started to decline and she was dealing with a lot of pain, she never forgot about Casper. He made her feel needed when a lot of people would feel helpless. His cute little face and happy little spirit kept her from getting depressed when faced with Leukemia. When she went to bed, he went to bed and snuggled up with her every night and kept her warm and safe and made her feel special. He was my co-caregiver and he took his job seriously. He was always by her side and if he wasn't, I knew to go check on her. He never got tired, irritated, stressed out or overwhelmed. When we knew that she didn't have much longer to live, he never got sad or depressed or looked into her eyes with pity. He knew what she needed. A happy spirit and lots of love.
Dogs, and pets in general, are natural caregivers and we need to give them more credit and more jobs. If you are a caregiver and don't have a pet, consider getting one. They can help you and your loved one more than you can imagine and they are well worth the extra cost and effort. Many shelters now will waive the adoption fees for the elderly.
I started a Pet Caregiver photo gallery and added a picture of Granny and Casper. If you have some pictures of pets who are caregivers, we would love to see them. Click here to see the gallery and upload your photo. Have a great day!
I never really appreciated little dogs until I became a caregiver for my grandmother. We used to joke that Casper, her dog, was only good for being a lap warmer. But he was much more than that to my granny. He WAS the best lap warmer ever, but he was also her best friend. He knew how to comfort her when no one else could and even when her health really started to decline and she was dealing with a lot of pain, she never forgot about Casper. He made her feel needed when a lot of people would feel helpless. His cute little face and happy little spirit kept her from getting depressed when faced with Leukemia. When she went to bed, he went to bed and snuggled up with her every night and kept her warm and safe and made her feel special. He was my co-caregiver and he took his job seriously. He was always by her side and if he wasn't, I knew to go check on her. He never got tired, irritated, stressed out or overwhelmed. When we knew that she didn't have much longer to live, he never got sad or depressed or looked into her eyes with pity. He knew what she needed. A happy spirit and lots of love.
Dogs, and pets in general, are natural caregivers and we need to give them more credit and more jobs. If you are a caregiver and don't have a pet, consider getting one. They can help you and your loved one more than you can imagine and they are well worth the extra cost and effort. Many shelters now will waive the adoption fees for the elderly.
I started a Pet Caregiver photo gallery and added a picture of Granny and Casper. If you have some pictures of pets who are caregivers, we would love to see them. Click here to see the gallery and upload your photo. Have a great day!
How-to Series: Caregiver 101 - Bedsores
Bedsores are injuries to skin and underlying tissues that result from prolonged pressure on the skin. They are also called pressure sores, pressure ulcers or decubitus ulcers. People most at risk of bedsores are those with a medical condition that limits their ability to change positions, requires them to use a wheelchair or confines them to a bed for prolonged periods.
Bedsores can happen very quickly and if not noticed right away can lead to very serious problems. In fact, Christoper Reeves died of complications brought on by bedsores. According to news reports, toxins from the infected ulcer entered his bloodstream, quickly causing organ failure.
Elderly people have thinner skin, which is more vulnerable to damage from minor pressure. If a very elderly individual is underweight, there will be less "meat" around their bones. Another common problem among very elderly patients is poor nutrition, which may affect skin and blood vessel quality, resulting in slower healing.
I found a couple of great articles that really goes into detail explaining everything caregivers need to know about bedsores. The first one is from Medical News Today. Another good one: Why Bed Sores in the Elderly Should Concern Caregivers
Helpful Hint: My mom suggests using Diabet-X. She has used it for years and has had better results with it than anything the doctors have used. You can probably get it at any major drugstore or you can get it at Amazon using the following link: Diabet-X
If you want even more information or want to know what bedsores look like, watch the following videos. Warning: The second video is pretty graphic and shows actual images of bedsores.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGpJWK0T28Q
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1fBcVfVY1Y
Article links
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/173972.php
http://www.ecarediary.com/viewblog.aspx?BlogID=528
Bedsores can happen very quickly and if not noticed right away can lead to very serious problems. In fact, Christoper Reeves died of complications brought on by bedsores. According to news reports, toxins from the infected ulcer entered his bloodstream, quickly causing organ failure.
Elderly people have thinner skin, which is more vulnerable to damage from minor pressure. If a very elderly individual is underweight, there will be less "meat" around their bones. Another common problem among very elderly patients is poor nutrition, which may affect skin and blood vessel quality, resulting in slower healing.
I found a couple of great articles that really goes into detail explaining everything caregivers need to know about bedsores. The first one is from Medical News Today. Another good one: Why Bed Sores in the Elderly Should Concern Caregivers
Helpful Hint: My mom suggests using Diabet-X. She has used it for years and has had better results with it than anything the doctors have used. You can probably get it at any major drugstore or you can get it at Amazon using the following link: Diabet-X
If you want even more information or want to know what bedsores look like, watch the following videos. Warning: The second video is pretty graphic and shows actual images of bedsores.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGpJWK0T28Q
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1fBcVfVY1Y
Article links
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/173972.php
http://www.ecarediary.com/viewblog.aspx?BlogID=528
How-to Series: Caregiver 101 - Medications
Medications can be overwhelming for even the most seasoned caregiver. Below are some tips to help you get your client or loved ones medications organized and ensure that there is no chance for drug interactions or other problems.
Keep track of all medications.
Write down all medications, dosages and times meds should be taken. I encourage you to go check out our caregiver medication form. It allows you to keep track of different medications, dosages, directions and what its used for. When the doctor gives new orders at doctor visits or over the phone, this form is especially helpful in keeping that medication information up-to-date.
There is a place for primary doctor contact information and additional information may be entered at the bottom. This form really comes in handy at doctors appointments, emergency room visits and ambulance calls. When medications change or you get a new prescription, be sure to change your forms. Keep the form with you whenever you go anywhere so it is handy if you need it.
Be informed and always let all doctors know what medications are being taken.
Sometimes your client or loved one may have a few different doctors and they ALL need to be informed of all medications and how they are being used to avoid dangerous interactions. Read the inserts that come with your medications and talk to the doctor so that you completely understand why the medication is being prescribed.
My grandmother had an instance where a doctor had used a medication for something other than what the medication was usually used for. He was using in combination with another drug, I believe to keep get her blood pressure under control. She forgot why the doctor was giving it to her and when she went to another doctor, he asked her about it, she didnt remember and he told her to quit taking it. Don't be afraid to ask questions. If you dont understand something, ask your doctor or pharmacist. Ask until you understand.
Double check medications when picking them up from the pharmacy. Check the label, look at the pill, etc. and make sure that the pill, dosage instructions, and label match the information on the insert. Mistakes are rare, but they do happen.
Ask questions!
When a doctor prescribes new medications, ask if there are any special instructions. When is the best time to take it? What foods should be avoided when taking it? Should be taken on an empty or full stomach and ask about side effects. Make sure you write down the answers so you don't forget. When you are dealing with several medications even the best caregivers can forget important information.
Store, despense and dispose of medications properly.
Keep medications in a cool, dry place. Keep them in the original containers to avoid mix-ups
I have heard that some people cut pills in half or take half doses to save money. Be sure to ask the doctor before you start cutting pills or dispensing half doses as it can affect how some medications are absorbed in the body and change how they work. If you are having trouble paying for your meds, check out our post about how to get help HERE.
If you are unsure how to dispose of unused and expired medications, check out Smarxtdisposal.net
Keep track of all medications.
Write down all medications, dosages and times meds should be taken. I encourage you to go check out our caregiver medication form. It allows you to keep track of different medications, dosages, directions and what its used for. When the doctor gives new orders at doctor visits or over the phone, this form is especially helpful in keeping that medication information up-to-date.
There is a place for primary doctor contact information and additional information may be entered at the bottom. This form really comes in handy at doctors appointments, emergency room visits and ambulance calls. When medications change or you get a new prescription, be sure to change your forms. Keep the form with you whenever you go anywhere so it is handy if you need it.
Be informed and always let all doctors know what medications are being taken.
Sometimes your client or loved one may have a few different doctors and they ALL need to be informed of all medications and how they are being used to avoid dangerous interactions. Read the inserts that come with your medications and talk to the doctor so that you completely understand why the medication is being prescribed.
My grandmother had an instance where a doctor had used a medication for something other than what the medication was usually used for. He was using in combination with another drug, I believe to keep get her blood pressure under control. She forgot why the doctor was giving it to her and when she went to another doctor, he asked her about it, she didnt remember and he told her to quit taking it. Don't be afraid to ask questions. If you dont understand something, ask your doctor or pharmacist. Ask until you understand.
Double check medications when picking them up from the pharmacy. Check the label, look at the pill, etc. and make sure that the pill, dosage instructions, and label match the information on the insert. Mistakes are rare, but they do happen.
Ask questions!
When a doctor prescribes new medications, ask if there are any special instructions. When is the best time to take it? What foods should be avoided when taking it? Should be taken on an empty or full stomach and ask about side effects. Make sure you write down the answers so you don't forget. When you are dealing with several medications even the best caregivers can forget important information.
Store, despense and dispose of medications properly.
Keep medications in a cool, dry place. Keep them in the original containers to avoid mix-ups
I have heard that some people cut pills in half or take half doses to save money. Be sure to ask the doctor before you start cutting pills or dispensing half doses as it can affect how some medications are absorbed in the body and change how they work. If you are having trouble paying for your meds, check out our post about how to get help HERE.
If you are unsure how to dispose of unused and expired medications, check out Smarxtdisposal.net
How-to Series: Caregiver 101 - Vital Signs
Vital signs are measurements of the body's most basic functions. Vital signs include but are not limited to, body temperature, pulse rate, respiration rate (rate of breathing), blood pressure (blood pressure is not considered a vital sign, but is often measured along with the vital signs.)
Vital sign monitoring provides valuable information about a client or loved one's current health condition. It allows caregivers, physicians and family members to understand and improve long term health relating to medication and lifestyle changes. Not only can this help caregivers decide whether or not medication and lifestyle practices are working correctly, it can also help to prevent costly emergency room visits and hospitalizations.
It is also very important for loved ones who struggle with high blood pressure, obesity and diabetes are checked often to ensure that their readings stay within a safe range.
BODY TEMPERATURE
Normal body temperature does not change significantly with aging. However, as you get older, it becomes more difficult for the body to control its temperature. Loss of subcutaneous fat makes it harder to maintain body heat. Many older people find that they need to wear layers of clothing in order to feel warm.
Aging decreases one's ability to sweat. Older adults find it more difficult to tell when they are becoming overheated. Older people are at greater risk for overheating (hyperthermia or heat stroke). They are also at risk for dangerous drops in body temperature (hypothermia). (from Medlineplus.com)
I found a video with everything you need to know about taking temperatures. It was too large to post here, so just click HERE to watch it on Youtube.
PULSE RATE
Pulse rate and rhythm shows how fast your heart is beating, the strength of each beat and whether your rhythm is regular or sporadic. This is important since the heart is the pump that circulates blood throughout your body, and your blood carries the oxygen essential for life, .
Checking your pulse rate is counting the number of times your heart beats in a minute. Pulse checks can be taken at the wrist (radial pulse) or at the neck (carotid pulse). Do not use your thumb; instead use your index and middle fingers. A resting adult heart rate should be between 60 and 80 beats a minute, but heart rate slowly decreases with age, due to changes in the heart muscle as it ages. Therefore, the resting heart rate of the elderly will usually be slower than that of a younger person. Emotional state, infection, medications and overall health can also affect your heart rate. You can watch step by step HERE.
RESPIRATORY RATE
"Respiration, or breathing, is a normal and vital body process that exchanges carbon dioxide and oxygen in the bloodstream. Breathing in is also called inspiration, while breathing out is known as expiration. Caregivers of seniors can observe for signs of normal and abnormal breathing in order to provide safe and efficient care."
Vital sign monitoring provides valuable information about a client or loved one's current health condition. It allows caregivers, physicians and family members to understand and improve long term health relating to medication and lifestyle changes. Not only can this help caregivers decide whether or not medication and lifestyle practices are working correctly, it can also help to prevent costly emergency room visits and hospitalizations.
It is also very important for loved ones who struggle with high blood pressure, obesity and diabetes are checked often to ensure that their readings stay within a safe range.
BODY TEMPERATURE
Normal body temperature does not change significantly with aging. However, as you get older, it becomes more difficult for the body to control its temperature. Loss of subcutaneous fat makes it harder to maintain body heat. Many older people find that they need to wear layers of clothing in order to feel warm.
Aging decreases one's ability to sweat. Older adults find it more difficult to tell when they are becoming overheated. Older people are at greater risk for overheating (hyperthermia or heat stroke). They are also at risk for dangerous drops in body temperature (hypothermia). (from Medlineplus.com)
I found a video with everything you need to know about taking temperatures. It was too large to post here, so just click HERE to watch it on Youtube.
PULSE RATE
Pulse rate and rhythm shows how fast your heart is beating, the strength of each beat and whether your rhythm is regular or sporadic. This is important since the heart is the pump that circulates blood throughout your body, and your blood carries the oxygen essential for life, .
Checking your pulse rate is counting the number of times your heart beats in a minute. Pulse checks can be taken at the wrist (radial pulse) or at the neck (carotid pulse). Do not use your thumb; instead use your index and middle fingers. A resting adult heart rate should be between 60 and 80 beats a minute, but heart rate slowly decreases with age, due to changes in the heart muscle as it ages. Therefore, the resting heart rate of the elderly will usually be slower than that of a younger person. Emotional state, infection, medications and overall health can also affect your heart rate. You can watch step by step HERE.
RESPIRATORY RATE
"Respiration, or breathing, is a normal and vital body process that exchanges carbon dioxide and oxygen in the bloodstream. Breathing in is also called inspiration, while breathing out is known as expiration. Caregivers of seniors can observe for signs of normal and abnormal breathing in order to provide safe and efficient care."
Read more from Normal & Abnormal Breathing in Seniors HERE and watch a how-to video HERE
BLOOD PRESSURE
For clients and loved ones with hypertension, home monitoring allows your physician to monitor howmuch your blood pressure changes during the day, and from day to day. This may also help your physician determine how effectively your blood pressure medication is working. The following video explains the proper way to take blood pressure using different methods.
BLOOD PRESSURE
For clients and loved ones with hypertension, home monitoring allows your physician to monitor howmuch your blood pressure changes during the day, and from day to day. This may also help your physician determine how effectively your blood pressure medication is working. The following video explains the proper way to take blood pressure using different methods.
How-to Series: Caregiver 101 - How to Give an Insulin Shot
This week we want to show some basic how-to videos for caregivers. All of the things we are going to cover this week are important skills that every caregiver should know. Some might be scary and some you may not have thought about, but I hope after watching these videos, you will gain confidence in yourself as a care provider. Knowledge is power!
There are a lot of how-to videos out there on every subject imaginable. Some are good and some are not so good. This week, we've done the work for you and found the best videos for each topic. We like videos that go into great detail and actually show you step by step how to do things. If you do too, then the videos this week are for you! We hope you benefit from them.
How to Give an Insulin Shot
If you care for someone with diabetes, you’re probably wondering how to properly inject insulin. Even if you don't care for someone with diabetes, its a good thing to know how to do.
This video from dlife.com guides you through important steps for preparing and storing insulin and the steps to administering a shot.
There are a lot of how-to videos out there on every subject imaginable. Some are good and some are not so good. This week, we've done the work for you and found the best videos for each topic. We like videos that go into great detail and actually show you step by step how to do things. If you do too, then the videos this week are for you! We hope you benefit from them.
How to Give an Insulin Shot
If you care for someone with diabetes, you’re probably wondering how to properly inject insulin. Even if you don't care for someone with diabetes, its a good thing to know how to do.
This video from dlife.com guides you through important steps for preparing and storing insulin and the steps to administering a shot.
Caregiver Bill of Rights
Mother's Day was last weekend and it made me think how great it would be if there was a real Caregiver Day with cards, gifts, flowers and free dinners in nice restaurants! Like mothers, caregivers often give up freedom, friends and money. And like mothers, its easy for us as caregivers to start to lose our identities and question ourselves and our lives. Loved ones that we care for and family members can often make us feel guilty for making decisions and taking time for ourselves. It's so important to care for ourselves just as much as we do the ones we care for. I found this article called A Caregiver's Bill of Rights. Its something all caregivers should print out, put up on the wall and read often.
http://www.caregiver.com/articles/caregiver/caregiver_bill_of_rights.htm
http://www.caregiver.com/articles/caregiver/caregiver_bill_of_rights.htm
The Caregiver Resource Network
"The Caregiver Resource Network is a collaboration of West Michigan organizations dedicated to providing for the needs and welfare of family and professional caregivers within the community."
This site has a lot of useful information for caregivers. There are extensive articles on everything from legal and financial issues to respite and adult day care. Click on Caregiver Facts to find out what kind of caregiver you are or click HERE to go to the main list of topics.
There is a learning section where you can view or download caregiver packets on subjects like, Getting What You Need From the Medical Care System, Long Distance Caregiving and Taking Care of You. The lessons are pretty extensive and would be a wonderful resouce for new caregivers.
The coolest part, I think, Is the Caregiver's Corner Radio. Relevant topics are discussed such as Male Caregiving, Medication Mismanagement, Family Dynamics and Decision Making, Alzheimer's & Dementia and Critical Issues for Caregiver's. The Caregiver Resource Network may have been started for Michigan residents, but there is a lot of great information for caregivers in all states.
http://www.caregiverresource.net/
This site has a lot of useful information for caregivers. There are extensive articles on everything from legal and financial issues to respite and adult day care. Click on Caregiver Facts to find out what kind of caregiver you are or click HERE to go to the main list of topics.
There is a learning section where you can view or download caregiver packets on subjects like, Getting What You Need From the Medical Care System, Long Distance Caregiving and Taking Care of You. The lessons are pretty extensive and would be a wonderful resouce for new caregivers.
The coolest part, I think, Is the Caregiver's Corner Radio. Relevant topics are discussed such as Male Caregiving, Medication Mismanagement, Family Dynamics and Decision Making, Alzheimer's & Dementia and Critical Issues for Caregiver's. The Caregiver Resource Network may have been started for Michigan residents, but there is a lot of great information for caregivers in all states.
http://www.caregiverresource.net/
Music & Memory
Music & Memory is a non-profit organization that brings personalized music into the lives of the elderly or infirm through digital music technology, vastly improving quality of life. Not only can this benefit patients in nursing homes, but also loved ones at home. The following videos are from the Alive Inside Documentary Project. Watch to see how dramatically music affects these nursing home patients. Also a video with caregivers in support of using the program in other nursing homes and bringing it to their own family members after seeing it work.
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